Be the BEST You Can Be!

be your best

You know we spend so much time fretting over silly things. We worry about the fleeting and the superfluous instead of focusing on and investing in the most important asset that we have, and that would be ourselves. Whether we are blogging, working, playing, or nurturing relationships with others, we want to be the best that we can. Let’s take a look at four critical aspects in being our best!

Stop comparing yourself to others

I would like to clarify a point. There is a big difference between the word your and the. I think it’s important to strive to be your best, not necessarily the best. Here’s a little secret. There is always going to be someone or something better than you. Even if you do attain the title of the best, whether it be the best sports athlete, the best actor, the best musician, the best worker, the best programmer, or the best blogger, the reality is time at the top is usually short lived. Why hold yourself to that standard? You are only setting yourself up for disappointment. The question becomes, are you doing everything in your power to be the best that you can be every day? If you are confident in your efforts to do and be your best, you will have better esteem for yourself and will be treated better by others.

Eat the right foods

Eating the right foods is so important to keep your body and mind in their best shape to accomplish what you want to accomplish. What are some foods to keep you in tiptop shape? In general, a Mediterranean type diet full of colorful vegetables and lacking in white processed foods will keep your mind and body in excellent condition. Here are 10 of my favorite super foods:


  • Lower your cholesterol
  • Reduce risk of cardiovascular disease
  • Excellent source of whole grains
  • Major benefits for post-menopausal women
  • Boost your immune system
  • Stabilize your blood sugar
  • Lower their risk of diabetes
  • Tremendous fiber and anti-oxidant benefits


  • Often called a super food
  • Whole body anti-oxidant
  • Cardiovascular benefits
  • Improves brain function
  • Helps stabilize blood sugar
  • Very good for your eyes


  • Good for fighting depression
  • Fights muscle cramps
  • Helps prevent calcium loss
  • Reduce PMs symptoms
  • Strengthen your blood
  • Aids in digestion
  • Excellent source of potassium


  • Excellent source of vitamin C
  • Good for B complex vitamins
  • Great source of dietary fiber
  • Loads of Phytonutrients
  • Improve neurological health
  • Lower levels of bad cholesterol
  • Reduce risk of stroke


  • Lower bad cholesterol
  • Very good for your heart
  • Stabilizes blood fats
  • May help with losing weight
  • Almonds lower the risk of weight gain
  • Good source of riboflavin
  • Loads of protein


  • Reduce inflammation
  • Anti-oxidant benefits
  • Helps with detox in the body
  • Assists digestion
  • Good for your skin
  • May improve eye health


  • Good muscle tissue benefits
  • Good for your heart
  • Great source of omega three fatty acids
  • Helps increase metabolism
  • Extremely high in protein

Leafy green vegetables

  • Helps you to age gracefully
  • Lowers cholesterol
  • Good for your eyes
  • Helps turn carbs into energy
  • Boost your bone health
  • Prevent colon cancer

Sweet potatoes

  • Beta carotene powerhouse
  • Anti-inflammatory nutrients
  • Good for blood sugar

Red wine

  • Contains resveratrol which is good for your heart
  • Helps prevent tooth decay
  • Relieves stress
  • Good source of antioxidants

Take Time For Yourself

These days we are all busier than ever whether it’s racing down the highway to get to work on time, making time to meet all of our deadlines, spending time with family and friends, taking care of our Elders and Children, or taking classes to improve our education. Not to mention the constant buzz of TVs, iPhones, iPads, laptops, tablets, radios, and every other kind of electronic gadget. It’s enough to make you insane. This is why it is so vitally important to make some time for yourself. Take some time where you can sit back and reflect on what makes you happy and how to get centered again. Recharging your batteries in this way will do wonders for your energy levels, put you in a better mood, and give you that inspiration and creativity that power your achievements.

Lead an Active Lifestyle

Many of us may work in an office, where we spend a lot of time sitting behind a desk. In fact you might be at a desk for 8 to 10 hours straight. Friends, this isn’t good for you. Your body is collapsing in on itself by doing nothing but sitting. So take time throughout the day, to get up, go for a walk or run, and get your blood pumping again. Not only will this reduce the risks to your health by sitting still for so long, but your mood will greatly improve as well.

These are just a few of the things that I like to do, to keep myself in the right frame of mind and to help me be the best that I can be. I hope you are doing everything you can to be the very best that you can be!

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